gratitude-a-thon day 690: that was fast

Today is the first last day.

We’re no longer going to be able to answer the question on the Census that reads: “Do you have school age children?” (Do they actually have that question? Does the Census still exist, even?)

It’s the last senior year. Ally’s going to graduate. No more PTO meetings, back-to-school nights, class breakfasts.

All the clocks we own seem to be moving in time lapse photography. First she was 7 pounds and 2 ounces of adorableness with a full on head of hair, and then she was a beautiful, smart and funny 5’7 super star soccer player with an infectious laugh, a willful streak, and a big curiosity about the world. The life of the party.

It happens. In the time you can say, “Do you have your cleats?” they grow up.

It’s senior year. Emotionally, I’m a Jackson Pollock painting.

Here’s to you, Ally. Here’s to a great year, your last as a Brookline student.  Here’s to you. And all you are, and hope to be. You’re everything to me. Love you, little girl.

gratitude-a-thon day 689: test-optional

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“Test optional.” That’s James-Taylor-live-at-Fenway-awesomeness. This article on why many colleges, including George Washington University as of this past July, are now going test-optional. Talk about great news (even if it’s for reasons that just push them higher in rankings–I don’t care, the fucking SAT’s aren’t going to be so burdensome anymore).

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I believe you’re a “tester” or you aren’t, and that while those fill-in-the-blank sheets may prove your stellar capability in being able to think in a particular way, they miss a bunch of your intelligence, which can prevent your from attending a college that may be the perfect setting for your future academic life. Those tests are a big old Stop sign to living out your four years at the college of your dreams. See, I don’t believe they really predict how you’ll do at that college, I believe much more in the work ethic, the nose-to-the-grindstone motivation you’ve shown predicts much more what kind of academic success you’ll meet with. Fuck those fucking tests.

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So, whether it’s really a self-serving reason that colleges and universities are 86ing test scores, I care little. They are going the way of the KKK, and that is some “KEG PARTY!” kind of news.